ArE YoU ReallY TaT InTo HiM.?

how familiar does this scenario sounds

A girl meets less than a stellar guy.

a girl dates less than a stellar guy.

a girl gets broken up wid less than a stellar guy.

a girl sinks into a horrible funk over loosing, quite frankly a guy who probably wasnt worth her time in the frst place..

so wats wid all the tears?wen he is not tat into u. ok lets consider tat maybe just maybe u arent tat into him either.

One of the possible scenario for falling fer a man who u were neva tat into to begin wid or who reached fer u simply fer the challenge between frnds u get into a relationship in wich the main attraction is the lack of attraction. strange as it may sound but it happens a lot..

A lot of wimen end up dating men who they know they are not into or who are other wise inappropriate fer them b'coz there is less ,if it doesnt workout in the end then they can easily slip away by saying he was not rite fer me neway!

Then they climb back rite onto tat treadmill, only to repeate the cycle..

the problem wid this sorta problem is tat it eventually results in a dramatically lower standards. u may think tat u are giving a little but u actually end up giving up a whole lot and how much worse can it get wen the looser guy whom u went out wid primarly as an ego boost(lets be honest here)winds up rejecting u

how much worse do u feel?.. as a result its a vicious downward spiral tat u orignally get into 4 a feeling of presumed safety of superiiority & then u end up feeling lower & lower nd so it continues until u hit rock bottom& finally u decide "u betta off alone"..

then u realize u were not tat into him but somewhere along the line ur egotrip got involved & then u need him to be into u perhaps u just wanted some attention nd then baffled wen he pulled away or maybe u became so involved to make him like u get into a relationship

jus coz u cud validate urself but wat happens next? well maybe it went nowhere nd then u get back onto the dismal dating cycle or perhaps fer betta or worse, u actually started to like him & found urself falling fer him nd if the feeling is reciprocrated then there turns out to be more to this then intially met the eye or u maybe on ur way to something meaningful & real. but if he is everything he was , u are bound to feel worse fer all the time & energy you spent pretending u were into him in the frst place..

so girls wen u get into a relation ship next time do ask this question to urself

are u really tat into him.?